Does your girl throw a tantrum every time you try to put her in a dress…or does your boy beg and beg to wear his sister’s Elsa princess dress? Rather than try on mommy’s make-up, does your girl want to stack your cosmetics into pyramids? And rather than build houses, does your boy want to play house instead?
Then you are living my life… and I yours. Only I am just a few steps ahead in the journey.
There is the chance that your child doesn't fit into the constraints of gender roles like other kids might. They may play or dress assuming a gender role they weren't born with. When this happens it's very important to pay close attention to how your child feels about their body.
As you release the heavy burden of emotions that you will surely feel along this journey, you will begin to experience clarity. That clear thinking will help you to make decisions that are appropriate for your family and in your own time. I will not be making any decisions for you. It is imperative that all decisions come from you and that you are following your child’s lead and dealing with family and friends as it is safe for your family’s situation. This journey is not one size fits all! I have yet to hear two stories that are alike in the transgender world. But what I do know is that some feelings and experiences are universal to all families as they move through this process and that is where the success of this program occurs. That is why I know how to support you…because I have been there. You will no longer be alone.
We understand how sensitive this transition can be. Let us help educate and guide you so you can make the best decision.
We specialize in helping to educate and inform you and your family as your child transitions. We offer many resources such as literature, private coaching, and various support programs regarding transgender and gender dysphoria. We aim to provide a loving support system for you and your family during while you figure out the best course for transition.
The most obvious is for them to tell you. This is often accompanied by children assuming other gender roles as they dress and play. Like a boy playing more feminine childhood games and wanting to wear feminine clothing. These are some of your first clues that should have you considering having them evaluated for gender dysphoria. If they feel that they are the wrong gender and don't like their body then they are most likely transgender.
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